Life Hacks

Tricks

There're things that need time to take decision, and then there're things that shouldn't need that time. At those times, use the 5 second rule or toss a coin.

The 5 second rule is just you taking a break and at the end of those seconds, whatever decision hangs on your head must be taken, stupid and chaotic, but sometimes all a circumstance requires is for you to move away eg: a bull approaching in full momentum of a TON

And the coin toss trick is not that you take the decision by head or tails but actually when you toss the coin, the moment before it hits the ground you will surely think of the decision that you really wish to take, by heart, so once you reach that clarity, use your brain now to figure out the stakes on that, obviously dont just jump in with just heart lol Roll the Dice or Flip the Coin!

Time Perspective - A Reality Check Backed by Research

Basically, Average life expectancy in many countries may sit around 79–80 years, but studies on “time-use analysis” from the American Time Use Survey (ATUS) and research published in Social Indicators Research show that nearly two-thirds of that lifespan is spent on sleep, routine maintenance, illness, commuting, and unconscious aging states. In other words, the truly experiential part of life—the part where you actively feel, choose, express, and live—is much smaller, often hovering around 16–20 active years of conscious living. This reframing aligns with findings from psychologist Daniel Kahneman on “experienced time” vs. “remembered time,” where the mind compresses life into fewer meaningful segments. Knowing this works to your advantage: it shrinks the emotional weight of problems. If life’s truly lived moments are so limited, then sadness and stress become temporary guests, not lifelong tenants. Research from the Journal of Positive Psychology confirms that adopting a “finite-time perspective” reduces anxiety and increases present-moment appreciation.

For reference

Relax

Don't think too much... you feel and experience what you think... so stop... breathe. Relax... Don't pressure yourself... no one's dying bud (got your 17 years yet) and some research :This ties directly into emotional regulation science. Studies from Harvard Medical School and Stanford’s Center for Stress & Health show that overthinking amplifies stress responses, while conscious breathing and cognitive defusion reduce perceived threat in under 60 seconds. Simply put: you feel what you repeatedly think. Pause. Breathe. Reset. Nothing catastrophic is happening — and according to psychological research, this micro-reset is enough to break the mental loop. So remember: whether sad or happy, life’s fraction is tiny. Enjoy the moments that actually count — because science agrees, you really do have only ~17 years of fully conscious experience, and they are worth only when lived without pressure.

Perspective

One of the most common ways to attain relaxation/inner peace/ balanced head/mind in fierce fights or blatantly bad situations is to practice Empathy and Perspective, hand in hand.

Perspective image

The main way or one of the major ways to prepare that point of view is by analogy (think of an example that suits the situation best).

Reality

1. Awkward but isn't it true that whatever we may eat, how rich nor how poor, how tasty, how miserable it all comes down the same way as every food does for every human in the next day morning (no matter how good things go, they all end (death eventually, nihilistic yes))

2. Bad habits, people who say they only do a little of it... (Shit is shit no matter how little or big it is...sorry) although sometimes amount and intensity do matter upon cleansing or clearing it off

3. Never do the same mistake twice. (*FACTS*).

4. (once you know this you won't be normal) Dopamine, testosterone, oxytocin, norepinephrine, and phenylethylamine all work together to create a feedback loop of love.

5. Don't listen to unknown quotes, it is just another trend being set, not the reality faced by you!

For reference

SEBI's Intervention in the Stock Market

The Harshad Mehta scam of 1992 was one of the biggest financial scandals in India. It involved market manipulation and fraudulent activities that led to a significant stock market crash. SEBI, the Securities and Exchange Board of India, played a crucial role in reforming the stock market and introducing new regulations to prevent such scams in the future. Anyone wish to travel that path has to understand the above facts before actually going down that rabbit hole, cause you will not know when to stop like Lucky Baskar did

Fun Fact

Nothing is ever too dumb for life

Because we literally just pay to see other human beings (movies, airplane tickets, through specs, heck even prostitution), alls human need is more human to live with, so just go ahead, be dumb, learn, unlearn, progress, prevail.

Fun Facts are pretty random to pop out of nowhere even when we are enduring hardships and struggles in our life. Say, like how you come across random ads while watching TV or playing Ad implied games etc.

And just like ads, you must ignore those fun facts that hurt or disturb you, or should use it for the very sake of it! Fun and drop em down, strip em off their values after the obliged consumption of it

As I said earlier perspective matters, yet another example image for you down below, but this time watch closely (tilt phone upside down).

Perspective illusion

Did you find the trick? Hope you did!

Just like the above image, life sometimes may seem hard and unruly no matter which direction or way of approach you may make and take. At those times, you must not fade away rather bounce back and say "is that all you've got?!!"

Don't shout, I can hear your "HOW!!" That is life, figuring it out is your adventure but if you wanna drop dead as a weakling you always have a choice mate. If you can't approach it anyway, then let it slide, flow, crash. And once you get the slightest hint, go at it!! Crash it back!! Harder and twice as it did, revenge for the anguished (you).

Toxic Relationship

Toxic relationships are at times just "One-sided relationships"

How to Move Forward in a One-sided Relationship: If you feel that you're in an imbalanced relationship, Campbell suggests documenting your time and making a concrete list of observations.

If after making these observations, you feel that things are one-sided, you need to communicate your feelings with the person, who otherwise won't know that a problem exists. And if it still pertains, cut ties with the person.

However, initiating change can be the hardest part of navigating a one-sided relationship. "The problem with one-sided relationships is that often it is just one person initiating these 'talks' because being in what we call an over-benefitted situation (getting more out of a relationship than you are putting in) can be quite comfortable," Campbell explains. "So your partner may not respond favorably to the complaint."

In fact, "researchers call this pattern 'demand-withdrawal,' which involves one partner initiating a discussion or requesting a change and the other withdrawing from the conversation and avoiding discussion," she elaborates. It's a very unhealthy and a common pattern in one-sided relationships. "If the over-benefitted cares about the other's well-being, they will seek to improve the balance and take on more of the work or put in more effort," says Campbell.

"If a partner does not change after being made aware of the imbalance, the partnership might not be a good fit and the under-benefitted person should consider moving on," she adds.

Money Philosophy

Money philosophy

Thought to process

Money is not meant to be chased; it is meant to be directed with purpose. Assets work even when you don’t, so build more workers than worries. A paycheck feeds today, but financial intelligence feeds decades. Every rupee saved is temporary, every rupee invested is permanent. The poor buy comfort first, the rich buy control first. Wealth is not how much you earn, but how long your money can protect you. And the smartest investor is the one who learns before he leaps, and invests before he needs.

Smart Way

The simple route is to work first to get some cash (capital). Everyone has to chip in for the capital.

Now simultenously, when you are in said process of obtaining the capital on the flow, the capital gained must work itself to reel more capital perpetually, instead of zeroing in on working for cash (capital) alone. Check out some ways to start now

Betterment of Society or Surrounding

It can get going little from the outset. Two or three hundred dollars or pounds to a great extent.

In the event that you start soon enough, you can collect a tremendous pot of cash at retirement.

There are alternate approaches to bring in cash work for you also, remember contributing income creating resources (assets i.e next gen). The fact of the matter is, in the event that you buckle down for cash alone, it won't ever deliver true income, you will consistently be once again at the starting point, as no one who value it will be around you for it to sustain the same. Alls im saying is grow a good neighbourhood, a tree, and a kid if you get a chance lol

Know Better

That doesn't mean paid and difficult work is terrible. It gives reason to live for each individual.

No one can tell when your wellbeing will go however.

So when you can begin reinvesting cash from that work, for the future, the sooner you have more alternatives.

Truth Bomb Alert!

TRUTH

If you like someone, you'll exaggerate them in your mind.

If you dislike someone, you'll still exaggerate them in your mind.

If you exaggerate, it means you're unable to see them as they are.

You can never handle life the way it should be...

BELIEF

Now...I have to be grateful to someone for the good things that happened and would happen to me in future, if i thank myself thats pride (atheists), and if i thank no one, thats wild(Agnostic)...

So, personally, I believe in Jesus and am grateful to him.

So that I don't feel guilty nor prideful under my own judgement and conscience, leaving that burden to him. yalls can try or find yourself an alternative(if possible)

SELF WORTH

Self worth

You put down yourself too much sometimes that you sacredly believe that you'd just die for someone who is better (lol due to low self esteem).

Your body isn't yours entirely. It's part your own efforts and your parents' prayers and hope of a better tomorrow (if you don't believe in God) or it's your creator's (your God).

So if you wanna die for your friend's sake and you're that pure of it... Then you might as well take your body and soul as your other friend who deserves your attention too.

Don't treat it like you own it and it's you... it ain't you if you don't look after it like you should. It isn't selfish... it's taking care of that body and soul given to you... just like a friend.

So, DEEP breath and know that you are worthy of yourself.

EMPATHY

Knowing this may actually make you know which is a suited environment for you or make such environment for others to build a better surrounding.