Life Hacks

Tricks

There's things that need time to take decision, and then there are things that shouldn't need that time. At those times, use the 5 second rule or toss a coin.

The 5 second rule is just you taking a break and at the end of those seconds, whatever decision hangs on your head must be taken.

And the coin toss trick is not that you take the decision by head or tails but actually when you toss the coin, the moment before it hits the ground you will surely think of the decision that you really want to take by heart.

Time Perspective

Average life expectancy maybe 79.6 years but the actual living is 17.5 years (sleep, eating, drinking, old age, non-consciousness take away the other time). Now, knowing this will be of your advantage to face life and an easy reminder that: sad or happy, enjoy each moment!

For reference

Relax

Don't think too much... you feel and experience what you think... so stop... breathe. Relax... Don't pressure yourself... no one's dying bud (got your 17 years yet).

Perspective

One of the most common ways to attain relaxation in fierce fights or bad situations is to learn about Empathy and Perspective.

Perspective image

The main way or one of the major ways to prepare that point of view is by analogy (think of an example that suits the situation best).

Reality

1. Awkward but isn't it true that whatever we may eat, how rich nor how poor, how tasty, how miserable it all comes down the same way as every food ever for a human in the next day morning (no matter how good things go(start), they all end up bad(death eventually)).

2. Bad habits, people who say they only do a little of it... (Shit is shit no matter how little or big it is...sorry).

3. Girls are vulnerable, boys misuse... no two ways about it (*FACTS*).

4. (once you know this you won't be normal) Dopamine, testosterone, oxytocin, norepinephrine, and phenylethylamine all work together to create a feedback loop of love.

5. Don't listen to unknown quotes, it is just new trend not the real fact in the end!

For reference

SEBI's Intervention in the Stock Market

The Harshad Mehta scam of 1992 was one of the biggest financial scandals in India. It involved market manipulation and fraudulent activities that led to a significant stock market crash. SEBI, the Securities and Exchange Board of India, played a crucial role in reforming the stock market and introducing new regulations to prevent such scams in the future.

Fun Fact

Nothing is ever too dumb for life

Because we literally just pay to see other human beings (movies, airplane tickets, through specs, heck even prostitution).

Fun Facts are pretty random to pop out of nowhere even when we are enduring hardships and struggles in our life. Say, like how you come across random ads while watching TV or playing Ad implied games etc.

And just like ads, you must ignore those fun facts that hurt or disturb you, or should use it for the very sake of it! Fun and drop ladies and gentlemen.

As I said earlier perspective matters, yet another example image for you down below, but this time watch closely (tilt phone upside down).

Perspective illusion

Did you find the trick? Hope you did!

Just like the above image, life sometimes may seem hard and unruly no matter which direction or way of approach you may make and take. At those times, you must not fade away rather bounce back and say "is that all you've got?!!"

Don't shout, I can hear your "HOW!!" That is life, figuring it out is your adventure but if you wanna drop dead as a weakling you always have a choice mate. If you can't approach it anyway, then let it slide, flow, crash. And once you get the slightest hint, go at it!! Crash it back!! Harder and twice as it did.

Toxic Relationship

Toxic relationships are at times just "One-sided relationships"

How to Move Forward in a One-sided Relationship: If you feel that you're in an imbalanced relationship, Campbell suggests documenting your time and making a concrete list of observations.

If after making these observations, you feel that things are one-sided, you need to communicate your feelings with your partner who otherwise won't know that a problem exists. And if it still pertains, cut ties with the partner.

However, initiating change can be the hardest part of navigating a one-sided relationship. "The problem with one-sided relationships is that often it is just one partner initiating these 'talks' because being in what we call an over-benefitted situation (getting more out of a relationship than you are putting in) can be quite comfortable," Campbell explains. "So your partner may not respond favorably to the complaint."

In fact, "researchers call this pattern 'demand-withdrawal,' which involves one partner initiating a discussion or requesting a change and the other withdrawing from the conversation and avoiding discussion," she elaborates. It's a very unhealthy and a common pattern in one-sided relationships. "If the over-benefitted cares about the other's well-being, they will seek to improve the balance and take on more of the work or put in more effort," says Campbell.

"If a partner does not change after being made aware of the imbalance, the partnership might not be a good fit and the under-benefitted person should consider moving on," she adds.

Money Philosophy

Money philosophy

Explanation

The point about the animation is this. There are two individuals, apparently doing likewise work. One looks glad and the other is extremely pitiful. One is doing things the most difficult way possible, and one is doing things the simple way.

Smart Way

The simple route is to work first. Get some cash. Everyone needs to bring in cash, and except if you acquired it, a great many people need to work.

Nonetheless, when you are acquiring, begin bringing in your cash work for you, instead of zeroing in on working for cash.

Betterment of Society or Surrounding

It can get going little from the outset. Two or three hundred dollars or pounds to a great extent.

In the event that you start soon enough, you can collect a tremendous pot of cash at retirement.

There are alternate approaches to bring in cash work for you also, remembering contributing for appreciating and income creating resources. The fact of the matter is, in the event that you buckle down for cash, however spend that cash on things that will go down in esteem and won't ever deliver income, you will consistently be once again at the starting point.

Know Better

That doesn't mean paid and difficult work is terrible. It gives individuals reason.

No one can tell when your wellbeing will go however.

So when you can begin reinvesting cash from that work, into future income, the sooner you have more alternatives.

Truth Bomb Alert!

TRUTH

If you like someone, you'll exaggerate them in your mind.

If you dislike someone, you'll still exaggerate them in your mind.

If you exaggerate, it means you're unable to see them as they are.

You can never handle life the way it should be...

BELIEF

Now...I have to be grateful to someone for the good things that happened and would happen to me in future.

Thus I believe in Jesus and am grateful to him.

So that I don't feel guilty under my own judgement and conscience.

SELF WORTH

Self worth

You put down yourself too much sometimes that you sacredly believe that you'd just die for someone who is better (lol due to low self esteem).

Your body isn't yours. It's probably your parents' (if you don't believe in God) or it's your creator's (your God).

So if you wanna die for your friend's sake and you're that pure of it... Then you might as well take your body and soul as your other friend who deserves your attention too.

Don't treat it like you own it and it's you... it ain't you if you don't look after it like you should. It isn't selfish... it's taking care of that body and soul given to you... just like a friend.

So, DEEP breath and know that you are worthy of yourself.

EMPATHY

Knowing this may actually make you know which is a suited environment for you or make such environment for others to build a better workplace.